It has been a while since I've last posted well I will explain why. My life has changed drastically in a stressful yet good way. First Trevin's biological dad moved to a different state so now Trevin is with me and Trent everyday except he visits him once a month and during the summer. We have been working with Trevin a lot to make this new adjustment easier for him. Even though he is still little and doesn't fully understand what is going on our (mine and Trent's) major priority is to make Trevin's life the best we can make it and every transformation as easy as it can possibly be. We want Trevin to have the best life possible with the situation that he is in and that's what we are giving him. Not only is it a huge change it is always a huge change for us too in a great way. My anxiety has gone down a lot with this change because I don't have to worry about as many problems anymore. I'm still learning to deal with my anxiety specially thinking about Trevin leaving for a longer period of time in the summer but I've learned to focus on right now and make everything the best I can because Trevin deserves it. And I defiantly have Trent to thank for that because he has supported me so much and reminded me to focus on now and we will conquer the rest together when the time comes.
The next big change that has happened Trent, Trevin and I moved into our first house!!!! We moved everything in this past Saturday after our new carpet was put in! We still have a lot to do with painting a couple rooms and unpacking but it is slowly coming along! I am most excited about Trevin's room since I found so many cute ideas on Pinterest and his room will be Jake and the neverland pirates. And don't worry I will be posting pictures and how I made most of his decor and where I found it all in my Mama tips section! It has been a huge change since Trevin and I have been living with my parents since he was born so he is still adjusting to not seeing his Nana and Papa everyday and being in a completely different place. We didn't move far and we are actually about 3 blocks away from my brother and his family which is nice knowing that if I need anything or have an emergency he is right down the street. We had a long journey with all the house stuff. We remodeled some of Trent's condo in Bountiful and had it under contract within days of putting it on the market but sadly a couple weeks after and after we found our new house and put a offer in they buyer of the condo pulled out since her visa was about to expire and the bank wouldn't lend her the money because of it. So we had more stress trying to find a new buyer fast so we could keep our contract with our house and luckily a couple days later we had another offer but little did we know that this lady was going to be difficult. During her inspection this new buyer wanted a lot of things fixed which we understand and did but she was very impatient! She informed us that she didn't have all the money for her down payment so we had to move the closing date. There was a gas leak that they found and Trent had fixed it and they went back to check it again and said it wasn't fixed so the buyer called the gas company and reported the leak and had our gas shut off at the condo. Yes she was that crazy! Trent got a phone call at 11:30 pm on a Sunday night from the gas company saying it was shut off. So needless to say it was a LONG journey buying/selling a house but now we have our first house and we are so excited! Pictures of inside will be posted once I get everything cleaned! :)
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