I have two older siblings 1 brother (Nick) and 1 sister (Amber) who is the oldest. She hated when I would take her clothes and now I can't even fit in most of her clothes since she is so small! When she was I think 16 she had to have back surgery because she has scoliosis and then when she was about 21 she had opened heart surgery because one of the arteries was the size of the tip of a pen which it should be the size of a coin. The artery wasn't getting enough blood through it and she would have high blood pressure. Needless to say she has been through a lot when it comes to medical and there would be more in her future. And it is hard seeing someone you look up to specially a sibling go through so much pain and you can't really help them. I would cry when I went to see her in the hospital and when I would talk to her on the phone. While they were doing her open heart surgery they accidently broke a rib or maybe it was a couple ribs I can't remember exactly but I couldn't imagine the pain. When she was going through her heart surgery she was dating a guy name Vernon. He was defiantly different than the other guys she has dated. He was really quiet and Amber talks a lot! He stayed by her side the whole time during the surgery so we all knew they would get married.
In May of 2008 they got married!! It was exciting and the wedding was great and I had my best friend Kirsten there to party with! After everything was done I moved into her old room. I remember it really hit me hard that she wasn't living there anymore. It was just me and my brother and he liked to pick on me a lot. I cried a little the first night she was gone and missed her but I was very happy for her. We have been through a lot together and she has helped me a lot throughout my life and I would always be grateful to her for that! I never said anything to anyone until now but it really sucked for me having my sister out of the house. I always get excited thinking about me and her going shopping for a prom dress for me, which we did for my first prom and I will also post some awesome brace face prom pictures later! But with our age difference (6 years or so I think) I was in middle school and she was married and starting her own family. It took me a while to get use to but we still would see each other and go shopping. I learned a lot from her and looked up to her a lot and I still do. She is the best sister I could ever have and not a lot of people have a sister like I do and I am grateful for having her. Thanks Amber for being the best sister!
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