Above is a message I got from a girl that I went to school with and she also has a little girl that is a little younger then Trevin and yes she is SO cute! This is exactly why I am doing my blog. When I hit rock bottom in my life I had no one that I could relate to. My family was supportive about everything that was going on and helped me so much with Trevin, since I work full time and was now a single mother. I want to open up about my life to help other people. No I am not intentionally doing this to make people look bad or put people down, which is why I don't use names unless I know they would be okay with it, but I want other girls that have hit rock bottom know that things can change. My whole life changed several times and the last time it changed Trent came into my life and now things have been amazing. I wouldn't put things on my blog that I wouldn't be okay with testifying in court about, taking a polygraph test, or that other people haven't witnessed.
My blog is here to help people specially other girls that are going through what I have gone through and to have someone to relate to. I want to show people that you have really crappy times in your life but things can completely change into something amazing and you have to stay positive throughout the whole time and you can't give up. One day I was married then a mom then divorced and now I have an amazing and incredible husband and the best little boy in the world. I had to go through the bad to get where I was meant to be in my life. I strongly believe that things happen for a reason and get you to where you are meant to be. Every single event in my life has lead me to Trevin and Trent and without my two boys I don't know where I would be in life. Everything in your life happens for a reason and every person that comes in or out of your life happens for a reason. I now look at my life like an arrow, you have to pull back (the hard times) to get directed to the target (where you are meant to be). With all my difficult times I have learned a lot. I have learned about what people I don't want in my life, what people I do want in my life, and how I want to live my life. I have been put down as a person, been told I was a horrible mom, and so much more but I'm not letting those people control me and my life anymore. I have started taking control of my life and how I will live it. I have let people get to me and bother me but I'm letting it all go. I do what is best for my son and he will always be my number one priority not matter what else happens in our lives. As much as people try to tell me what I'm doing is wrong and how I am a horrible mother I am going to keep doing what I am doing and how I am raising my son. With all the negativity in my life especially since becoming a mother I have worried that my son replace me as a mother and I have spent a lot of time worrying about it and now I know that will never happen and have completely stopped worrying about that. I spend as much time as I can with him and make memories with him that he can always remember and I will continue to do that. I know I have a special mother son relationship with Trevin that will just keep growing and nothing is going to change that or stop it. What I am trying to get a crossed is don't let people bring you down and make your life miserable. It's not worth it and you don't have to let people do that to you! You do whatever is best for you and your life and not worry about other people. I have spent way too much of my time worrying about everyone else’s opinion when I could be making my life better. When you hit rock bottom you will get back up and positive things will happen. There is always something good out of every situation.
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Lindsey!
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Kate Kalt
7/16/2015 04:01:15 pm
I love reading this! You are an amazing mother and person
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